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Read è PDF, eBook or Kindle ePUB free Í Adam GalinskyT s that you could End Up Writing A Self up writing a self book The authors never cross that line this remains academic if perhaps a bit dumbed downAs it turns out I met a good friend at Terminal 2 yesterday he was flying through London and he was 90 minutes delayed Friend and Foe with all its faults kept me good company SPOILER ALERT SUMMARY OF ADVICE OFFERED IN THIS BOOKCooperating while competing Alberto Fujimori negotiated with the MRTA who had taken over the Japanese embassy but was simultaneously planning an attack and built an identical house for the special forces to train onStarting position is important Robert Kennedy had aspirations for the Presidency but was happy to first work for his older brother Jack Conversely David Miliband never recovered from the attack of his younger brother Ed and exited politics altogetherPower corrupts The E and the inverted E o This is a brand new book with an intriguing title from two accomplished professors at highly respected institutionsThe title and recency might be leaning you in favor of purchasing this book The third fact might notIf you are worried that this book is stuffy or academic fear not Rat This book applies cutting edge science To Real Life Situations Faced real life situations faced people pursuing their careers and their dreams If you ve ever felt like you don t nderstand when or how to push for what you want this book is for you And if you ve ever been told you don t work well with others this book is for youIt has something for everyone because it sees through a false dichotomy that only those who crush others will really achieve their dreams or that the way to happiness is to make sure that everyone around s is happy before turning to our own goals Galinsky and Schweitzer s insight is that it s wrong to pick only one of these approaches The key is to know when and how to pursue your own interests and when and how to help others achieve theirs This was a pleasure to read and I am already incorporating some of the new tools and information I gained from it into my work and personal lifeThe book draws from a wide array of scientific fields and the information
In Each Chapter Iseach chapter is to life with vibrant examples and case studies The real mastery of the authors shows through in their ability to write without watering down to describe deep and important research in a way that illuminates its importance for our lives in a way that makes sense Highly recommended Outstanding book Galinsky and Schweitzer examine the cooperative and competitive aspects of such topics as social comparison gender hierarchy trust perspective taking order effects etc The book draws Rm relationships and get of what we wantHere Galinsky and Schweitzer draw on original cutting edge research from their own labs and from across the social sciences as well as vivid real world examples to show how to maximize success in work and in life by deftly navigating the tension between cooperation and competition They offer insights and advice ranging from how to gain power and keep it how to build trust and repair trust once it’s broken how to diffuse workplace conflict and bias how to find the right comparisons to motivate s and make Sweet Valentine us happier and how to succeed in negotiations – ensuring that we achieve our own goals and satisfy those of our counterpartsAlong the way. Many important topics discussed in a friendly way loved itthe name is important interesting aspect of name is important interesting aspect of to embrace nick names and turn the meaning our favor Good Outstanding review of the psychology of power powerlessness competition and cooperation Engaging fast and written by two of THE experts on the psychology of power Started with promise but I found the real world comparisons that were constantly referred to distracting andn related I The Rancher and the City Girl understood the premises being initiated by the writers and felt frustrated that each one had to be accompanied by an explanation that was suited to a child I went to school with AdamSo I recognized his John Lennon glassesnder the title of the book which did not make it to the cover but are Ice Wolves (Elementals, uite prominentnder the words Friend and Foe once you ve opened the bookAnd I recognized Adam in the book it s smart but there s an ndertone of I m smarter than you to it which is how I remember the author While probably true it can grate Also often it isn t all that terribly smart Example George W Bush is credited with the skill of making people feel warm toward him by giving them apposite nicknames
Ali and Frazier is what he called the two feisty female Californian senators of his day for example Thatand Frazier is what he called the two feisty female Californian senators of his day for example That truly be awesome if one of them was not called Barbara Boxer Under the light of this additional info the nicknames are if anything infantile and facile no Come on Adam you can t hold that type of thing back you will get foundAlso the theme of the book really is imposed ex post If the whole thing was about Friend and Foe then tons of it went over my head So when the advice is dispensed on whether to take the first or last appointment when you re interviewing for a job who s the friend and who s the foeOn the other hand the book is a fun listing of all sorts of stuff the authors have done extensive research on and it reads effortlessly If you want a book that you can pick p from the middle or from the end or from the beginning with zero loss of continuity if you want a book you can read while waiting at the airport Friend and Foe will prove a good companion A lot of the advice dispensed here boils down to if you go the extra step to be fair or generous or sympathetic you will find other humans will most of the time respond in a way that makes it worth your while to do so This is explained through specific examples and backed More Than a Convenient Bride (Texas Cattlemans Club: After the Storm up by years of psychological experiments that were conducted by the authors in the lab so to speak It s good fun to read if not intense funFinally there is always a trap you can fall into when you write this sort of book and What does it take to succeed Thisestion has fueled a long running debate Some have argued that humans are fundamentally competitive and that pursuing self interest is the best way to get ahead Others claim that humans are born to cooperate and that we are most successful when we collaborate with others In FRIEND AND FOE researchers Galinsky and Schweitzer explain why this debate misses the mark Rather than being hardwired to compete or cooperate we have evolved to do both In every relationship from co workers to friends to spouses to siblings we are both friends and foes It is only by learning how to strike the right balance between these two forces that we can improve our long te. .
Eavily on p to date research in management and psychology I recognized many articles that Were Published In JPSP In published in JPSP in 15 here Book is written in a collouial style for the non expert but the book is completely evidence based and never dumbs anything down like other books in this genre sometimes do Though I was already familiar with many of the ideas and topics I learned many new cool things especially when it came to descriptions of order effects and negotiation strategies Highly recommended book for the lay reader as well as for academics There were a lot of points in this book and statistics that I felt were really interesting I actually
Learned A Good Amount Thea good amount The problem I had was that it felt a bit repetitive like there was book than there was info But definitely an interesting read and good break book from YA Imagine going to to an orchestra performance You are really looking forward to this occasion as you have heard great things about the performers and the music they will be performing But as the first notes start playing you realise something is off The music is discordant ncoordinated even and the whole audience is in a state of confusion Disgruntled and frustrated you leave the performance at half time having learned no than before you got there For anyone wanting to learn about when to cooperate and when to compete a fundamental element of personal and career success this is the state of academia to compete a fundamental element of personal and career success this is the state of academia them Although a great deal of research has been done and a great many insights gathered the field is difficult to access for experts and lay people alike Until now that is Profs Galinsky and Schweitzer in their roles as conductors of the orchestra are able to weave together individual instruments and tones into a comprehensible melody And their contribution does not end at the role of conductor this dream team of researchers and writers have also been crucial in the development of some instruments and playing techniues in the orchestra metaphor having written over 250 scientific articles on this very topic Galinsky and Schweitzer achieve a sheer genius feat being able to provide the interested readerlistener with the latest knowledge in cooperation and competition tied together with personal stories and anecdotes that touch both the heart and the brain The line of outstanding social science writers like Steven Pinker Malcom Gladwell Daniel Gilbert and Daniel Kahneman must now also count Adam Galinsky and Maurice Schweitzer amongst themselves Bravo The beginning and the end are the most interesting parts of this one Overall very interesting and a pleasure to read. They pose and offer surprising answers to a number of perplexing puzzles when does too much talent ndermine success; why can acting less competently gain you status and authority where do many gender differences in the workplace really come from how can you se deception to build trust and why do you want to go last on American Idol and in many interview situations but make the first offer when negotiating the sale of a new carWe perform at our very best when we hold cooperation and competition in the right balance This book is a guide for navigating our social and professional worlds by learning when to cooperate as a friend and when to compete as a foe and how to be better at bo.